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These few words are here to give some guidance for young people, especially those who have had their hearts broken as a consequence of a bad relationship. Are you a young man whose girlfriend has chosen to leave, or are you a young girl whose boyfriend betrayed you by running off with another girl? If you are, keep reading.

It is never to late to learn how to protect your heart next time.

It is never too late to open your heart and discover how not to allow the hurt to enter your heart should this happen again.

Before you even think about kissing that newly found partner think about what will make you feel physiologically fulfilled, and it isn’t physical exercise. At the end of the day you have to live with your self and that is a good reason to be kind to your self.

Wouldn’t it be good if at school we were all taught how to love and live, instead of learning 2+2 = 4. As a consequence we end up having money for life, but little or no knowledge about love. And without love there is no life.

So, you found the partner…and you would like to experience a sexual relationship filled with excitement and pleasure? To experience that you need to melt together on 3 levels. Here are 3 words that start with letter S.


Soul, Spirit and Sex.

The Soul connection is a heart to heart connection, where the two of you think alike and have the same wishes. To do this you need to talk a lot to each other and find out whom you both are.

The Spirit connection is when you both believe and come to know that there is a living God. A God of consciousness and creation that is integral to each and every living thing. Come to know this with your heart and mind.

And the third component is Sex; a divine physical connection of highest fulfilment the way God intended it in the first place. An act that when performed with deep love and devotion will bring you even closer to God.

When one of these three connections is missing, the relationship usually fails and falls apart sooner or later.

Most people around the world are trying to achieve true togetherness by having sex first. Especially young people, who haven’t had the time to learn about loves beauty and true fulfilment. For them often sex is an expression of lust, a carry over from our animal heritage. Sex is not the cause of a good relationship, but a good relationship leads to good sex.

I know, and this has been my experience, something I had to learn too.

This is a musical web site, I know, so why do I write about sex here?

Well, because sex is often the cause of biggest pain in relationships and breaks the hearts of many, with a broken heart they listen to music with the hope it will heal their hearts.

Hey, before you even think about kissing that newly found partner, remember, that kiss can cost you. Don’t rush to bed straight away; you risk killing the relationship instantly. Why? Because you will start from the peak of excitement and from there, there is only one way for the feelings in the relationship to go and that is down, and when you reach bottom there is nothing left to keep you together. Think carefully.

You are the one that should control your body with your mind, not the other way around where hormones control your mind.

You are the one who is in control; do not let short-term hormonal lust, and physical fulfilment cloud your mind. Instead try and approach your relationship from a fully conscious level as God would have intended for you to do and in giving and receiving conscious love you will find and know true, lasting fulfilment.

If you don’t connect with your hearts and souls freely you miss out on the feelings of true love.

If you are one of those people that run’s around changing from partner to partner you will end up loosing your sensitivity for that one important person that comes around once in your lifetime.

God created that person just for you.

I have a question for you.

How is your physical self-control? If you don’t have any, you are prone to betrayals? If you are prone to betrayals you are already looking at a failed relationship in future?

You know, there is no love without trust and there is no trust if you have no self-control.

So, think smart and think about what you are going to do with your soul, spirit and sex?

Don’t forget, God created marriage and marriage should be made of true love and true love produces quality sex. Would you like to learn how to start from the beginning?
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