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Let’s talk about different kinds of love.
There are many. Here is one example that is very popular: “I love you if.”
It goes something like this: "If you buy me this ring you will show me that you love me”,
or “if you go to bed with me that will be prove that you love me”.
Love that demands things in return is selfish love, in fact it is not love at all, it is disguised as love. It’s like an exchange of goods in the market place. It is conditional love, sooner or later rejection happens and bitterness sets in.
Are you a person who experiences this type of love? What is your “if”?
There is another kind of love that most of the people think is good love.
It begins with: “I love you because.”
“I love you because you are beautiful” or “I love you because you are rich or famous”.
If the beauty is the reason for love, the love will decline soon enough in fact as soon as a new beauty appears insecurity sets in.
Or when a bank account collapses one party just walks away. Do you love because of something?
In both kinds of love there is no trust and no-one surrenders. They are conditional loves and both are based on fear and insecurities.
The most beautiful love is unconditional love. This kind of love is not blind, you can not develop it and you can not turn it off. For this kind of love you don’t have to look beautiful or handsome or be rich. This kind of love just happens without any cause.
A soul that is not empty from inside and does not need a relationship to fill the void in their life, they have the capacity to share this kind of love. Only a content, complete and fulfilled person can give this kind of love.
Unconditional love always gives while conditional love is always waiting to receive.
Unconditional love gives freely, has no fear, no envy, no jealousy, no lies, no pretending.
This kind of love is divine love.
That is how God loves us, no matter if we are beautiful or not, rich or poor, young or old.
God is this kind of love, only a person filled with Gods Spirit can share this kind of love.
In fact, there will be no giving on their part, they will just shine from within and beam with love which will encapsulate all people that they come into contact with. It is not even a question of giving and receiving, the love is just there, permanently 24/7.
One of the major obstacles that stand between us and this kind of love is ego or pride.
The secret of love is to love unconditionally.
Would you like to be loved like this, or would you like to share love like this?
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